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	<title>Comments on: sunday life: in which &#8220;deep talking&#8221; has a comeback</title>
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		<title>By: DNMs are the new black people. &#171; mixedupworld</title>
		<link>http://www.sarahwilson.com.au/2010/07/sunday-life-in-which-deep-talking-has-a-comeback/#comment-130764</link>
		<dc:creator>DNMs are the new black people. &#171; mixedupworld</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 02 Oct 2011 21:46:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] DNMs are the new black people. [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Sarah</title>
		<link>http://www.sarahwilson.com.au/2010/07/sunday-life-in-which-deep-talking-has-a-comeback/#comment-4111</link>
		<dc:creator>Sarah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Jul 2010 02:22:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Broije - very nice indeed</description>
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		<title>By: Broije</title>
		<link>http://www.sarahwilson.com.au/2010/07/sunday-life-in-which-deep-talking-has-a-comeback/#comment-4106</link>
		<dc:creator>Broije</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Jul 2010 20:14:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is exactly it.

Scientists are unfolding the meaning of life; we&#039;ve got quantum physics and relative math at our fingertips and my generation&#039;s main interest is vajazzling.

In the realm of the cerebral, meaningful conversations trancend IQ.  They are available to us all.  They only require an open mind and an honest tongue.

Today we don&#039;t have to tolerate small talk.  Today we can say what is important.  We can learn to abstain from flapping our lips just to know we&#039;re still here.

Save your words; they are what bring us up to the level of the spirit.

And when you speak, let your heart scream!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is exactly it.</p>
<p>Scientists are unfolding the meaning of life; we&#8217;ve got quantum physics and relative math at our fingertips and my generation&#8217;s main interest is vajazzling.</p>
<p>In the realm of the cerebral, meaningful conversations trancend IQ.  They are available to us all.  They only require an open mind and an honest tongue.</p>
<p>Today we don&#8217;t have to tolerate small talk.  Today we can say what is important.  We can learn to abstain from flapping our lips just to know we&#8217;re still here.</p>
<p>Save your words; they are what bring us up to the level of the spirit.</p>
<p>And when you speak, let your heart scream!</p>
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		<title>By: Jamee Varda</title>
		<link>http://www.sarahwilson.com.au/2010/07/sunday-life-in-which-deep-talking-has-a-comeback/#comment-4071</link>
		<dc:creator>Jamee Varda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Jul 2010 16:02:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>YES! I&#039;m an HSP, and am highly driven by DEEP, personal connections with others on a 1:1 basis. I strive to talk about things like life, the environment, sociology, laws and justice, and personal experiences. I thrive on exchanging meaningful ideas and conversations. I&#039;ll take a quiet conversation in a park over gossip in a bar any day!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>YES! I&#8217;m an HSP, and am highly driven by DEEP, personal connections with others on a 1:1 basis. I strive to talk about things like life, the environment, sociology, laws and justice, and personal experiences. I thrive on exchanging meaningful ideas and conversations. I&#8217;ll take a quiet conversation in a park over gossip in a bar any day!</p>
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		<title>By: Greg</title>
		<link>http://www.sarahwilson.com.au/2010/07/sunday-life-in-which-deep-talking-has-a-comeback/#comment-4002</link>
		<dc:creator>Greg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jul 2010 07:39:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As well as TED our home grown ABC Radio National is a great place to go for an extensive array of cerebal content. http://www.abc.net.au/rn/</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As well as TED our home grown ABC Radio National is a great place to go for an extensive array of cerebal content. <a href="http://www.abc.net.au/rn/" rel="nofollow">http://www.abc.net.au/rn/</a></p>
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		<title>By: James</title>
		<link>http://www.sarahwilson.com.au/2010/07/sunday-life-in-which-deep-talking-has-a-comeback/#comment-3955</link>
		<dc:creator>James</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Jul 2010 05:50:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You know I was thinking about this last night and I still stand by the belief that there isn&#039;t that much difference between generations, same fears etc, but what I was wondering was whether there has been a pendulum swing....which I find tends to occur with extremes. I&#039;m a gen X&#039;er (I think......i&#039;m 39 that makes me GenX doesn&#039;t it?) and I think that our generation unconsciously were the benefactors of a resentment of sorts. This resentment was projected onto the Gen X&#039;s in terms of control, strictness, boundaries, responsibility etc. Was also the way that our parents were brought up but they were the product of the baby boom and started to break some very old beliefs and boundaries down. The parents of the baby boomers rejected (not necessarily directly) this and their kids for this, it was too confronting! Result - an unconscious resentment from the baby boomer gen.

So when I look at more recent generations and I will speak in terms of my friends and their kids here as I don&#039;t have any, I think that maybe a conscious decision (mostly conscious) has been made by our generation not to bring up their kids with such strictness, control and boundaries. Maybe a pendulum swing a little too far in terms of looking for a balance.

These are just maybes......was thinking about it last night!

I tell you one thing though, from a comment made above and a theme of re enrolling to vote, if I was 18 now (and I am passionate about my politics and always have been) I wouldn&#039;t be in a great rush to enrol. Look at the main alternatives given that we are still ruled by a Westminister bi-partisan political system that has turned to more media crazy presidential style politiking.........either Julia or Tony. Well Tony speaks for himself, speaks from teh heart but so did Mark Latham and we saw how that tuned out, he&#039;s an ultra conservative religious zealot who would like to take Australia back to the Menzies era. That&#039;s why little Johnny loved him so much and din&#039;t want Costello as the next leader....more of a moderate. Then there&#039;s Julia.....I love her for being unmarried, no children, A WOMAN, even her voice but she&#039;s a politician with little ticker at the end of the day. She proceeded to embroil herself in a fight to the right in terms of refugees and can&#039;t and won&#039;t make a bold stand on climate change.
So I can sort of understand a reluctance to take any interest in the invertebrate politicians that we are subjected to on TV each night.

Back to subject....I think deep talking is a great thing and I love it and miss it sometimes, I have little time for small talk and can be viewed as dismissive and aloof at times. Oh well.........</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You know I was thinking about this last night and I still stand by the belief that there isn&#8217;t that much difference between generations, same fears etc, but what I was wondering was whether there has been a pendulum swing&#8230;.which I find tends to occur with extremes. I&#8217;m a gen X&#8217;er (I think&#8230;&#8230;i&#8217;m 39 that makes me GenX doesn&#8217;t it?) and I think that our generation unconsciously were the benefactors of a resentment of sorts. This resentment was projected onto the Gen X&#8217;s in terms of control, strictness, boundaries, responsibility etc. Was also the way that our parents were brought up but they were the product of the baby boom and started to break some very old beliefs and boundaries down. The parents of the baby boomers rejected (not necessarily directly) this and their kids for this, it was too confronting! Result &#8211; an unconscious resentment from the baby boomer gen.</p>
<p>So when I look at more recent generations and I will speak in terms of my friends and their kids here as I don&#8217;t have any, I think that maybe a conscious decision (mostly conscious) has been made by our generation not to bring up their kids with such strictness, control and boundaries. Maybe a pendulum swing a little too far in terms of looking for a balance.</p>
<p>These are just maybes&#8230;&#8230;was thinking about it last night!</p>
<p>I tell you one thing though, from a comment made above and a theme of re enrolling to vote, if I was 18 now (and I am passionate about my politics and always have been) I wouldn&#8217;t be in a great rush to enrol. Look at the main alternatives given that we are still ruled by a Westminister bi-partisan political system that has turned to more media crazy presidential style politiking&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;either Julia or Tony. Well Tony speaks for himself, speaks from teh heart but so did Mark Latham and we saw how that tuned out, he&#8217;s an ultra conservative religious zealot who would like to take Australia back to the Menzies era. That&#8217;s why little Johnny loved him so much and din&#8217;t want Costello as the next leader&#8230;.more of a moderate. Then there&#8217;s Julia&#8230;..I love her for being unmarried, no children, A WOMAN, even her voice but she&#8217;s a politician with little ticker at the end of the day. She proceeded to embroil herself in a fight to the right in terms of refugees and can&#8217;t and won&#8217;t make a bold stand on climate change.<br />
So I can sort of understand a reluctance to take any interest in the invertebrate politicians that we are subjected to on TV each night.</p>
<p>Back to subject&#8230;.I think deep talking is a great thing and I love it and miss it sometimes, I have little time for small talk and can be viewed as dismissive and aloof at times. Oh well&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Nadine</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nadine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Jul 2010 11:51:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh my!
I just had a rushed lunch with someone, which I found deeply, if you will pardon the pun, unsatisfying.
I willingly limit my social engagements so that I can have D&amp;M&#039;s and spend real time with people. Not just fluttery surface stuff. Not interested.

Surface interaction is like subsisting on instant soup. Why do that when you can have the real thing?

But then, I am also a paid-up Gen X-er.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh my!<br />
I just had a rushed lunch with someone, which I found deeply, if you will pardon the pun, unsatisfying.<br />
I willingly limit my social engagements so that I can have D&amp;M&#8217;s and spend real time with people. Not just fluttery surface stuff. Not interested.</p>
<p>Surface interaction is like subsisting on instant soup. Why do that when you can have the real thing?</p>
<p>But then, I am also a paid-up Gen X-er.</p>
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		<title>By: five Ted.com talks you should watch this week &#124; Sarah Wilson</title>
		<link>http://www.sarahwilson.com.au/2010/07/sunday-life-in-which-deep-talking-has-a-comeback/#comment-3863</link>
		<dc:creator>five Ted.com talks you should watch this week &#124; Sarah Wilson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Jul 2010 01:46:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] who actually know their shit humbly share their findings, is refreshing. I mention the site in my Sunday Life column this week and have had stacks of people ask me about it. I thought it best to explain the gist with [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Vanessa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Vanessa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Jul 2010 13:31:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes, I love deepness! 

Interestingly, many of the deep chats I get involved in are spurred by things I or the other person have read on the internet – on reflection, we do tend to &#039;slice deep&#039; in our internet consumption too (i.e. read on a few topics that interest us), rather than go the many-but-shallow route...

I&#039;d tend to agree with @Laura that &#039;like-minded thinkers have more avenues to connect with each other&#039; online. Still, we can all spread the seeds of Deep. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, I love deepness! </p>
<p>Interestingly, many of the deep chats I get involved in are spurred by things I or the other person have read on the internet – on reflection, we do tend to &#8216;slice deep&#8217; in our internet consumption too (i.e. read on a few topics that interest us), rather than go the many-but-shallow route&#8230;</p>
<p>I&#8217;d tend to agree with @Laura that &#8216;like-minded thinkers have more avenues to connect with each other&#8217; online. Still, we can all spread the seeds of Deep. <img src='http://www.sarahwilson.com.au/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Megan</title>
		<link>http://www.sarahwilson.com.au/2010/07/sunday-life-in-which-deep-talking-has-a-comeback/#comment-3851</link>
		<dc:creator>Megan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Jul 2010 12:18:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So true! I love the comparason between DM and D&amp;M. Sad its come to this!
I too find myself starved for a good talk that doesn&#039;t end or start with &#039;lol&#039; or &#039;brb&#039; - grrr!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So true! I love the comparason between DM and D&amp;M. Sad its come to this!<br />
I too find myself starved for a good talk that doesn&#8217;t end or start with &#8216;lol&#8217; or &#8216;brb&#8217; &#8211; grrr!</p>
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